Despite having both a uterus and a propensity towards depression, I’m not a huge fan of the sad girl music genre. Aside from The Blow’s earlier stuff and Frankie Cosmos, I can’t think of any others I love at the moment (I’m sure they’ll all come to me in the middle of the night.)
However, Mitski is one sad Asian beezy I adore even though her songs are hit or miss for me. Her image is perfect. And this article on her explaining the (very simple) premise of her song “Your Best American Girl” is everything I’ve tried to express in many of my posts, but way better because it’s in song form. I really need to learn how to write a song.
You always want what you can’t have, and that all-American thing, from the day I was born, I could never enter that dream. That all-American white culture is something that is inherited instead of attained. So yes, it’s a sad song, but I wanted to make sure it reflected all of the contrasting feelings. You can be heartbroken about a relationship, but also, from it, realize you are you and you’re okay with who you are, or where you came from.